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In
the early 1980s, two Atlanta therapists, each with a history of
involvement in progressive social change work, decided to pursue
working with men who batter. Independently, Dick Bathrick, M.A.,
and Gus Kaufman, Jr., Ph.D., had been reading about the still-new
battered women’s movement and had begun to inquire locally
about the advisability of conducting a program for batterers. First
they approached Susan May who was then Executive Director of the
Coalition for Battered Women, asking if a program for batterers
would be useful to their shelter. Her response was, "Only if
you don’t create more work and more pressure for battered
women and their advocates. Go ahead and we’ll let you know
whether it’s working for women."
Soon
after they began their first batterer’s group in Atlanta,
Kathleen Carlin, who was then Executive Director of the Cobb County
YWCA Women’s Resource Center, hired them to run a group for
court mandated batterers. The arrangement that ensued was one in
which Dick and Gus would teach the batterers classes (then called
"groups") under the supervision of Kathleen and another
advocate, Leigh Ann Peterson.
For
all four, as well as for the men in "group," this structure
proved extremely challenging—indeed radical. It was unheard
of for men to talk together about the ways they view and treat women;
even more so for their discussions to be taped, listened to and
commented on by women. The arrangement shed light on the function
of male collusion and secrecy, the shift required for men to hold
battered women’s reality central, and the work involved in
men’s taking direction from women advocates.
Within
a short time it became clear that the work would be most effective
if a woman played primary leadership role in the organization. Kathleen
left the shelter to become the founding executive director of Men
Stopping Violence in 1982.
MSV
honed its analysis and expanded its work over the ensuing years,
moving always toward a sharper focus on social change but maintaining
the work with batterers as both a "laboratory" for men
learning the work and an entree into the community. A significant
new work area was added in 1994 when MSV won one of four national
cooperative agreement awards with the US Centers for Disease Control
and Prevention to conduct research into effective community intervention
to end battering.
In
1996, Kathleen was diagnosed with lung cancer, and passed away after
a six-month battle with the disease. A planning committee was appointed
from among board, staff, women’s advocate consultants, and
the community at-large to design and recommend an organizational
structure that would meet current philosophical and programmatic
needs. The results of this in-depth process were a new team structure
for programmatic and administrative functions; the naming of Ulester
Douglas and Dick Bathrick as Co-Executive Directors; the creation
of a two-woman consultancy to the organization; and a new by-law
requiring that women constitute a majority on the Board of Directors.
This
structure remained in place from 1998-2003, when Shelley Serdahely
became the Executive Director, giving Ulester Douglas and Dick Bathrick
an opportunity to move back into the programatic leadership roles
at which they excelled.
Men Stopping Violence continues to evolve through a continual process
of examining internal lessons and external demands. However, our
vision of safety for women remains constant, and our commitment
to staying in the work for the long haul is firm.
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