True
Ally Breakfast Brings Men
to Table in Support of MSV

Dawson
McKerrow
Approximately
15 men attended Men Stopping Violence's (MSV) True Ally Breakfast
on Feb. 18, 2010, and pledged their support of the work to
end violence against women.
Hosted by True Ally Committee co-chairs Harold Dawson, Jr.,
and George McKerrow, Jr., the event was held at Ted's Montana
Grill in downtown Atlanta.
True Ally Committee members and guests meet for breakfast
in February and September. Along with the meal, attendees
are provided education that help them spread the message of
safety and respect for women and girls. Some men choose to
become more involved with Men Stopping Violence or related
organizations.Others use this opportunity to prepare themselves
to speak up for women’s safety in a more informal way.
The committee also nominates recipients for the True Ally
Award, which is presented at the Men Stopping Violence Annual
Awards Dinner in October. The person receiving this award
has shown himself to be a man of conscience who uses his position
to create positive safe environments. Nominees for the award
can be a member of the committee or another man of prominence
who should be publicly recognized as an ally. Both Dawson
and McKerrow are past recipients of the True Ally Award.
True Allies are sometimes asked to support the work of Men
Stopping Violence, but the primary function of the committee
is to provide a vehicle for men who are ready to take a stand
to end the violence that affects women and girls.

MSV co-founder Dick Bathrick, Langston Walker of the Communitiy
Restoration Program, and executive director Shelley Serdahely
participated in Stop Violence Against Women Day.
MSV
Participates in Stop Violence
Against Women Day at the Capital
Men
Stopping Violence joined several statewide organizations and
other community partners at the 11th annual End Violence Against
Women Day at the Georgia State Capital on January 26.
Langston Walker, coordinator of MSV"s Community Restoration
Program, spoke about men's role in ending violence against
women.
"Now is the time for men to rise up and stand with women to
help end the suffering millions feel because of domestic violence
and sexual assault. Now is the time for men to challenge and
encourage other men to be better while striving to be better
ourselves," he said.
Georgia Commission on Family Violence, the Georgia Coalition
Against Domestic Violence, and the Georgia Network to End
Sexual Assault - along with Caminar Latino, Men Stopping Violence,
and Raksha.
MSV's
Yolo Akili Receives
Creative Leadership Award

On
January 22, 2010, a lot of people gathered for the Feminist
Women's Health Center 's (FWHC) “Stand Up for Justice” gala
discovered something that we here at Men Stopping Violence
already knew: Yolo Akili is an activist, educator, poet, yogi,
astrologer, truth-teller who walks very deliberately towards
trouble instead of away from it.
And
that's a good thing.
Akili,
who works as a facilitator and trainer at MSV, received the
Creative Leadership Award at FWHC's event. The trouble he
faces down is the kind that tries to marginalize people of
color, lesbian, gay and queer people, and women.
For
him, art, activism and education are all threads in the tapestry
of his life's work.
“For
me, it's all the same work,” he says. “Men Stopping Violence
is dedicated to helping to create safer communities for women
and all human beings. I share that same goal when I'm performing
my poetry, yoga and activist commitments.”
Akili,
who helps teach two classes and directs the Internship and
Mentor Training programs, joined Men Stopping Violence in
2008, the same year he completed the MSV Internship.
“I
had been involved with gender-based activism for sometime
already, so when I found out that Men Stopping Violence's
work with men was based on feminist principles, I was very
excited. I reached out to MSV and things just meshed. The
rest is history!”
MSV's
philosophy of guiding men to become embrace their full humanity
as a way of modifying behavior was also appealing.
“So
often the field of DV can be a space where unhealthy masculinity
is critiqued, but rarely a place where healthy masculinity
is modeled and men are given tools in which to shape and define
this for themselves,” he said. “MSV is unique in that it takes
an approach centered in self-awareness and not self-abnegation.”
In
addition to his work with MSV, Akili is a well-known poet
who is the author of “Poems in the Key of Green” and the new
spoken-word recording “Purple Galaxy.”